In Memory of

Barbara

Ann

Green

(McPhaden)

Condolences

Condolence From: Santiago Family
Condolence: Dear Green family, We are so sorry for your loss. Please let us share a hope for the future that has has brought our family much comfort. Please read Gods promise for the near future in John 5:28,29 and Acts 24:15. He gives us the hope to see our loved ones again in a paradise earth, Psalm 37:29. How beautiful it'll be when sickness and death will be done away with. Please know that Jehovah God will sustain you through this intense sadness. Approach God in prayer trusting that he will help you. (Psalm 65:2) We hope this has brought a measure of comfort to you and your family. Feel free to write to us, if you wish. Again, we are sorry for your loss. Sincerely, Santiago family
Friday September 28, 2018
Condolence From: Eileen Minett
Condolence: Adam and family Barb and I were in the same class at Toronto Teacher's College in 1967. Imagine my delight that she taught our 3 sons in Grade One. We would see each other at Board events over the years and she would always ask about them and speak of you with such pride. The last time I saw her was during March Break 2017 at a library program where we had each brought a grandchild. She took great delight in introducing her grandaughter and explaining to my grandson that she had taught his daddy and that he looked so much like him. Full circle. I was sad to read of her passing. She has left many with beautiful memories. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Tuesday August 14, 2018
Condolence From: Joan Taylor
Condolence: Adam, Alaina & Barb's special grand daughters, I was so sad to see that your courageous mother, with so much to offer our world, had left this earth on another journey. We all knew Barb from different places at different times but the same wonderful descriptors are repeated over and over in these messages to you. Her wit, humour, love of children, spontaneity, intelligence, devotion to her career,, love of life, sense of adventure, creativity and so much more are mentioned. She was a joy to know. We first met taking university courses in our 20's. Both of us loved to travel and in 1979 we ventured off to Ireland and Scotland with Barb H. and a friend of mine. I still laugh every time I think of our adventures. We all had so much fun. We shared a Bunratty Csstle medieval banquet with many amusing anecdotes, kissed the Blarney Stone, shooed sheep of roadways when they were disinterested and we had places to go! Barb would exit the car and wave her arms talking to the animals. She and Barb H. had so many hilarious stories to tell of their caravan week and the horse that wasn't too co-operative ... I will remember the laughter and good times we shared many years ago. Rest in peace, Barb. You have touched many and will never be forgotten.
Tuesday August 07, 2018
Condolence From: Cathy Hunter
Condolence: Dear Adam and Family, So very sorry to hear that your mom/grandma has passed away. Both of our daughters enjoyed her as their grade one teacher and always came home with the most unique art projects! One of them involved the pink, sparkling paint on one of your discarded,size 13 shoes! Her enthusiasm and energy was always positive and the twinkle in her eyes was always bright. Keep her sparkle always with you in your memories of her as I'm sure everyone who had the pleasure of knowing her will do. Cathy Hunter
Tuesday August 07, 2018
Condolence From: Gabriele Warne
Condolence: Dear Adam and family...it was with great sadness and shock that I heard of your mom's passing.She was a wonderful colleague to work with at S.J.Phillips, and was loved by her many students. I will always remember her laughter and witty humour. Her cheery presence and interesting conversation will be greatly missed at our monthly retirees breakfasts. Unfortunately I am currently out of town and unable to attend Barb's funeral, but my thoughts are with you at this time. Sending you all hugs and my deepest condolences at this difficult time.
Tuesday August 07, 2018
Condolence From: Anna Latino
Condolence: Dear Adam and family. My deepest sympathies to you all at this most difficult time. May the wonderful memories you have give you some comfort and by knowing that the suffering she went through is no more. Thinking of you all. Anna
Monday August 06, 2018
Condolence From: Katie Brown
Condolence: Dear Adam & Family; It was my pleasure and privilege to work with your Mom at Dr. Phillips. She was always a ray of sunshine, cheerful and loving to all of her students. Barb also spoke with great love of her son Adam - you were a great source of pride to her. Please take comfort in the wonderful memories you share with others of the kind and loving person your Mom and Grandmother was. She will be missed by many.
Monday August 06, 2018
Condolence From: Beverley Manuel
Condolence: Dear Adam and family, My heart aches for you. I’ll always have fond memories of your very special Mum and Grandma. Her quick Witt ,warm smiles and positive attitude always Cheered me up.. She was Maid of Honour when I married and a wonderful friend since we met at Dr.Phillips in 1968. Everyone who knew her will miss her. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers as you navigate through this difficult time. peace be with you. Beverley
Sunday August 05, 2018
Condolence From: Lynda, Rick, Ryan, Audra, Ava
Condolence: Adam & Family January to June, grandparents ferrying granddaughters to their weekly lesson. Barb always early---ensuring Audrey’s skates were on snuggly; coat, mitts and helmet just right. Barb sat on the bench with the best site line to our girls and I was to learn Barb’s generosity had no bounds. Barb kindly offered the five of us the option of sharing the seating---without adieu we became the new co-owners of said bench for the duration of skating lessons. What I must concede as most significant, is that Thursdays became the highlight of my week---sitting for a couple of hours each Thursday talking about life, family, our histories and our dreams. Barb was that best friend you always wished for--- whether speaking with Rick, my husband, my son Ryan or myself, her words always gave each of us a ‘heart smile’. We heard about the Green family Disney vacations --- ‘tour director and guide’ Barb, was able to point out the best places to stay and see, based on value and accessibility. I personally found myself engaged in her life, attempting to understand how she could be so ‘awesome’. Barb was a strong woman; loving mother; nurturing and kind grandmother; a wonderful thoughtful, generous friend, full of anecdotal information and capable of remembering history, art, names, places and people---a human Encyclopedia Britannica---and loved mysteries as did I. I/we won the lottery, when given a seat on Barb’s bench---although only a short time, I felt like we sailed through life together talking about travel, mysteries and ‘making meaning’ of life. It was a magical bench where four human beings shared thoughts, feelings, dreams, desires and foibles without fear of judgement or reprisal---Barb just had a way of creating such a space. When I informed my son Barb had died, he had no words, as with all of us our throats tightened, and our hearts hurt too much to vocalize. She had made an indelible impression on all of our family with her demonstrative ‘ways of being’ ---a person living a life of meaning, character and humanity. I/we will carry the gift of Barb’s bench and revisit it, whenever there is a good mystery, a kind word, a comforting voice or a gleeful heart.
Sunday August 05, 2018
Condolence From: Brian Wilson
Condolence: Barb and I started at Phillips on the same day in 1968. She was a fine teacher and a great person. She always had a smile and was one of the most positive people I ever worked with. I always enjoyed talking to her at the breakfasts and luncheons she had a big part in organizing. She will be greatly missed.
Sunday August 05, 2018
Condolence From: Judy Miller
Condolence: Sorry to hear of Barb's passing. I remember her wonderful sense of humour, and delightful smile. Barb brightened the halls of Dr. Phillips for many.
Sunday August 05, 2018
Condolence From: Carla Brown
Condolence: Dear Adam and Family, Barb was my next door neighbour at Dr. Phillips for 17 years. The halls of the school rocked with jokes and laughter, hugs for little children, conversations with parents and even curriculum planning with other teachers. She was the spark that created events and after retirement she made sure we all had monthly breakfasts together and that we kept in touch with one another. She will be missed beyond what words can express but her legacy is strong and she will never be forgotten. The mark she made on this earth was made with permanent marker!
Saturday August 04, 2018
Condolence From: Tara Mallaley
Condolence: Deepest condolences to the family of such an amazing woman. She was both of my children’s Grade 1 teacher at SJ Phillips and they both adored her. She cared for all of her kids and reached so many. Our hearts go out to your family and you will remain in all of the hearts of the so very many people you have touched their lives. R.I.P Mrs. Green xoxo
Saturday August 04, 2018
Condolence From: Jocelyn Siciliano
Condolence: My family and I are sending our deepest condolences to you Adam, and your family. I was lucky enough to have your Mom as my first grade teacher over 40 years ago. I volunteered in her class as a helper and remember her excitement as she waited for your arrival! My daughter was fortunate and also had your Mom as her first grade teacher! She has been a friend for all these years and made a lasting impression on us all. She was special--kind, strong and always positive. Hugs to you all.
Friday August 03, 2018
Condolence From: Ellen Holmes
Condolence: Dear Adam and Family Your loss is my loss. Your Mum was so special. Not enough words in the dictionary to describe her. She was everything to everyone she knew. What an honor it was to have her as my friend. I will love and cherish her for ever. May she rest in peace. Love to you all. Ellen
Friday August 03, 2018
Condolence From: Nina Kirienko
Condolence: So very sad and sudden. My deepest condolences to Barb's family. I only recently got to know Barb through the Oshawa Seniors Camera Club as we worked together on a project. She was kind, helpful, always smiling and thoroughly enjoyed being part of the club. Even when she knew about her upcoming surgery, she made sure our little project was on its way before she had to turn her attention elsewhere. I will miss her.
Friday August 03, 2018
Condolence From: Donna Brittain
Condolence: My sincere condolences to Barb's family, and friends. I met Barb through the Oshawa Senior's Camera Club. She was always such a warm, lovely, fun filled person. Truly a delight to be around. We will miss her beaming smiles at the meetings and I will miss her wonderful stories of the grandchildren and her teaching experiences over coffee. Rest sweet lady.
Friday August 03, 2018